“Manners are a sensitive awareness of the feelings of others. If you have that awareness, you have good manners, no matter what fork you use.” –Emily Post
Etiquette has been taken to mean behaving yourself in manner that is a little better than is absolutely necessary. However, what does good manners and etiquette mean when you are inside a movie theatre?
Well, for starters one should not talk loudly so as not to avoid other patrons. Furthermore, one should not attempt to record any portion of the movie as not only would this be considered rude, you could be fined, penalized and even sent to prison as well. But talking in soft voices and the refusal to record the movie aside, what constitutes as good etiquette inside cinemas? Well, truth be told, there are some behavioral nuances that we have long thought to be acceptable but are actually not upon closer scrutiny. If we wish to give everyone an equally great cinematic experience, we owe it to ourselves and to others to practice good movie etiquette. In any case, whether you are still checking for Solenad movie schedules and the like, here are some helpful tips on manners you should keep in mind:
Arrive on time
Punctuality is a common courtesy for everyone and arriving on time to see a movie should not be any different. Ideally, you should arrive at least ten minutes before the movie is scheduled to start. Why? This prevents you from being a nuisance to other movie patrons once the movie has already started. Arriving late means you would still have to find your seats which may disturb the other moviegoers who are already seated. Besides, showing up early means you can get to watch previews and trailers of upcoming movies you might want to see.
Share the armrest
The armrest—regardless of where it is situated is not your exclusive and sole property, so learn to share it. This is especially true when the cinema is teeming with patrons and it can be rather hard to declare ownership on a cup holder or armrest when you will be sharing it with a stranger. So, learn to share it. Ideally, you only get one armrest, do not be greedy and hog both. Watch the body nuances of your seatmate and see which one is his or her preferred armrest.
Do not hold up the line
Snack bars can get notoriously full with customers who wish to get their snacks particularly on times before movie airings. While you do have the leisure of pressuring what you wish to eat when it is already your turn, it is highly recommended that you already know what you want to eat even before you make it to the counter. Sure, you might still have twenty minutes to kill before your movie starts but the person behind you might only have a minute or so to spare. With this in mind, it is best never to hold the line. Have your cash and card ready and know what you want to order by the time you reach the counter.
Tall people
If you are particularly tall, you have excellent benefits when it comes to watching movies. Unfortunately, this comes with several disadvantages as well. One thing you must take note of is how to be sensitive to people who are shorter around you. Do not demand for a seat on the first aisle or else you are going to effectively prevent the person behind you from seeing anything. Try to sit near at the back of the theater so you do not obstruct the view of shorter individuals who may happen to sit behind you. The same rule applies to people with big hair or people who are wearing head accessories and who insist on keeping it on while watching the movie.